Misconception of many dictators: love has NOTHING to do with power.
While prostitutes favor people with money – real love can not be bought with power or money.
I guess there is no other way – even for a dictator – if he/she wants to be loved – to develop as human being – train one’s consciousness to make conscious decisions and become a good human being.
There is no other way.
Even the most heartless Germans – that try hard to pretend to be machines – not humans – because the economy loves machines and hates humans – with their emotions – illnesses and flaws – want to be loved.
Stalin’s second wife – was so happy – she shot herself.